Let’s be honest: most college students want two things by the end of a semester —a solid grade and a glowing letter of recommendation. But here’s the thing: it takes more than just showing up to class and submitting your assignments on time to earn either.
If you really want to stand out in your professor’s memory (for the right reasons), you need to understand what they are actually looking for from students. Spoiler alert: it’s not “Hey Prof!” emails at 2 AM.
Based on Dr. Maria Zaitseva’s sharp, relatable, and must-read guide, How to Survive (and Even Succeed) in a College Classroom, here’s a candid look behind the faculty curtain — and a roadmap to thriving in college.
It seems obvious, but it’s often overlooked. As Dr. Zaitseva bluntly puts it:
“Do your best to stay awake during class. If you think that internet browsing during class is bad, it does not even come close to falling asleep right there in front of your professor.”
One student even snored in the front row during a lecture on terrorism financing. Guess who didn’t get a recommendation letter?
Pro Tip: Sit near the front, stay engaged, and save the naps for after class.
Professors love students who plan ahead. Whether it’s managing deadlines or anticipating course requirements, proactive planning signals maturity.
Dr. Zaitseva recounts:
“I really need to take this class… I need it to graduate.” The catch? The student says this four months before graduation— about an intro class.
Pro Tip: Email your professor early if you expect any issues. Bonus points for a respectful tone and clear communication.
You might think that asking lots of questions equals participation. But professors can tell when you’re just filling airtime.
“Talking about the latest sports stats in a lecture about unmanned armed drones is not what your professor wants to do. Trust me.”
Pro Tip: Speak when you can add value. Tie your comments directly to the material.
Professors know that life happens, but they also have a built-in radar for excuses.
One student once admitted: